Wednesday, January 20, 2010

F*#\ the double standards.


When a female is angry, frustrated or annoyed with you, in their minds, this is a free pass to say or do anything they please, regardless of how rude or disrespectful. This may include any or all of the follow: hang up the phone, walk away from the table in the middle of a restaurant, raise their voice at you, hit you, spit in your face or confide in another man. What many of these woman fail to realize is the possibility that you did not intend to offend or upset them and even more that you may not be aware that you have done so.
At the very least, I think woman (anyone really, but lets focus on woman right now), should speak their mind in a healthy open way, letting their friend, lover, partner, husband or concubine know their feelings or opinion.
Arresting someone who may be guilty of nothing or of many crimes is unjust especially when they are unaware of what crime they have committed and more so if the laws are unknown. Imagine being arrested, detained, castrated for not putting down the toilet seat, being too nice to your girlfriend’s friend, making a joke that she didn’t find funny, smiling to the cashier, mortgage broker, dental hygienist or any female person in the world, without the expressed written consent of your girlfriend or wife, ridiculous right?
I thought so.
Ladies I ask you to check your egos at the door. Stop thinking you can get away with murder because of the power you possess between your legs. While you’re a woman, I’m a man, this does not negate the fact that in order for us to coexist in a civil, loving, progressive way, we need to treat and respect each other as equals and communication is key!

2 comments:

  1. OUCH! It seems you were just a wee bit angry at someone when you wrote this one. Hopefully you have now recovered from the licks she gave you by now.

    Friend, the best advice I can give you is to stay away the GIRLS (please note I didn't say women, because only childish people play the kind of games you described) who think it's okay to "hang up the phone, walk away from the table in the middle of a restaurant, raise their voice at you, hit you, spit in your face (WTF???) or confide in another man" about you, and find a real WOMAN.

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  2. Well said ...

    Note however that I was giving examples of unacceptable behaviour that exists, not that I have been victim of.

    Girls, woman, boys, men, have all in my experience acted in ways that are less than desirable or not as mature as one might expect.

    I could argue however that it may be easier to potty train a young puppy then to teach an old god how to fetch the morning paper.

    I'm just saying.

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